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[interpol15]

So my aunt, my godmother, has terminal cancer and is dying. The best she can hope for is a few years with radiation and chemo. There's a really good chance that she won't see me get married.

I don't know what to say to this.

2009 fucking sucks right now.

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[musicsexual.livejournal.com]

♥, darling. I remember my breakdown before my bat mitzvah when it really hit me that my father wasn't there to see it. I know there's not a whole lot anyone can do, but if you need anyone, I'm here.

[interpol15.livejournal.com]

It's just nice to know that there is someone out there I can talk to. Thanks a ton.

[provetheworst.livejournal.com]

visit her while you can. take what time you have.

that's all i can really say, other than that i'm sorry. it's terrible, but, yeah. visit with her, talk to her, you know.

[bloodygoodgirl.livejournal.com]

I'm so sorry hon. I guess just spend the time that you can with her. *hugs*

[unxpctdnekdjack.livejournal.com]

My last words to my father was about some stupid Pirates of the Caribbean purse I had just bought. I didn't know I wouldn't be able to talk to him again, so I was trying to be lighthearted about everything. I saw him one last time, after they had sedated him, but I couldn't even touch him I was so freaked out. I know he knew I loved him, but I'll never get over not being able to tell him goodbye.

So I know we're not the closest of friends, but I'm here too if you need to talk. ♥

[semi-subtle.livejournal.com]

I'm so sorry. I went through a similar experience with my grandma and just... the feeling of helplessness is the worst. I know we're on the newer side in terms of friendship, but if you ever want to talk about it just drop me a line.